The 2010s. What a decade.
The first five years were painful and the lowest period of my life; the last five were exciting, yet stressful, with many important milestones checked off: I bought my first place, got promoted, and most importantly, reconnected with CT. We’ve since renovated our first home together, went on some amazing adventures, and got engaged (underwater!).
One of the most important things I’ve learned this decade is that asking for help is OK and this applies to all aspects in life: home, work, friends. I’ve had to work through this internal struggle of being burnt out but still wanting to do everything myself and then beating myself for being burnt out. In the beginning of the decade, I would have never, ever, ever, even have thought about hiring cleaners or a wedding planner, but here I am now with both because
Iwe need the help. I’ve had to learn to delegate at work to save my own sanity – this is still a work in progress but I’m getting better at it. So as flattering as it would be to be considered Superwoman, I am not and I’m OK with that now. And btw, this is in no way a humblebrag – in fact, if you are someone that can do everything, I applaud you; YOU are amazing.
I started this blog! I initially wanted a place for me to document the food I was eating, making and the places I was visiting. I started trying out more restaurants this year and one of my favorites was Alinea (and it still happens to be on my top 10 list).
There was a lot of snowboarding. I even hiked up 13,000ft to ride the bowls at Breckenridge.
I took a hockey clinic hosted by the LA Kings!
Also experienced via ferrata for the first time
I ran my first marathon.
I also moved down to San Diego, intending to only stay for a year or two, but ended up living there for 6.
A rough year for me, but I got through it by getting back to the basics and focusing on myself. I read and cooked a lot this year.
I finally got a chance to run the Nike Women’s Half Marathon in SF.
And became a first time homeowner!
I reconnected with CT ♥
CT and I ice skated on Lake Louise and snowshoed to Peyto Lake.
We also explored Machu Picchu.
We renovated our first house together. This really tested how well we’re able to work together and communicate. There were definitely miscommunication at times and differences in opinion, but we got through it all and we’re super happy with the end result.
We went on the vacation of my dreams and spent 2 weeks eating our way through Italy (and also a few days Barcelona). We listened to Vivaldi’s The Four Seasons in Vivaldi’s church in Venice, made fresh pasta in Bologna, reenacted “hey cutie” from Master of None Season 2 in Modena, witnessed a beautiful sunset in Florence, biked through Tuscany, hiked Cinque Terre, made pizza in Naples, and visited the historic sites of Rome.
We completed our PADI certification in Maui.
And then got engaged while diving in Seattle.
I’m excited for what lies ahead in the 2020s. And what better way to start the decade than by marrying my best friend ♥